Basis of reframing is to separate Intention from Behaviour. Because all meaning is context dependent, changing the frame of a situation can change the meaning. A reframe is useful in giving someone new insight and understanding of a presenting problem and in the process make the problem become a non-issue. A context reframe is where …
Identify the problem part, the problem behaviour Setup direct communication with the problem part, Acknowledge benefits Get clear signals from the part. E.g. one hard gets colder or warmer for a certain signal Ask the part for the highest positive intention of the part Ask the person’s creative part to create new choice or behaviour …
Evidence Frame: A frame that directs toward the desired outcome or state. Used to establish direction when people are off point. E.g. so how do we know we are on track? Backtrack: A frame where the person is suggested to return to the main points shortly, Used to gently draw someone back to the main …
a) Mind Read – I know you know b) Conversation Postulate – Is this something that you can learn easily now? c) Selection Restriction Violations – And this pens knows many things d) Lack of Referential Index – And People can learn this easily e) Deletion – I remember…. f) Unspecified Verb – And you …
a) He makes me happy C >E “How specifically?” b) It’s wrong to cheat Lost Performative. “Who says?” or “How do you know?” c) I regret my decision Generalization “What are you deciding?” d) Nobody every pays attention Generalization. “Nobody? What would happen if they did?” e) She loves me. Mind Read “How do you …
The meta-model is a model of language that John Grinder and Richard Bandler developed by modelling the work of Virginia Satire. It is a very powerful model for recognising deletions, distortions and generalizations in a person’s language to help recover the deep structure behind the surface structure utterance. It also gives a model on challenging …
There is no content in content worth knowing. The only content is Context, Process and Structure. Content is the meaning we put on the internal representations and for everyone, the meaning is different. Process is the order and sequences of steps that results in a specific outcome See also:What is NLP?
He waves his fist at me ➡️ He is angry with me She touch my arm lightly ➡️She likes me I heard him speak to her ➡️They’re talking about me He groaned ➡️ He’s in pain I smell burning ➡️ She’s panicking See also: What is NLP?
Cross over mirroring is when you match a part of your client’s physiology with a different part of yours. For example: mirroring the tapping of my finger to a client’s breathing.
Physiology (posture, rate of breathing, blinking, gestures) Voice tonality (tonality, timbre, tempo, volume) Predicates (words, chunk size) Breathing See also: What is NLP?