As we go through life stuff happens! We get to a point on our journey when we experience some painful event. This isn’t necessarily a trauma it’s something painful. One of the greatest reasons people have painful experiences is because their understanding of the world is not accurate. Their model of the world is not …
To what degree are you experiencing a pattern in your life around the very things you are trying to avoid? If you are trying to avoid a certain situation, or circumstances or certain outcomes in your life and it keeps happening, this is a tip-off to identifying ‘Away from’ Patterns in your life. If you …
There are a lot of people who get really frustrated when they’re preparing for exams. We want you to get over that frustration. Wee want to give you some tips and ideas of how to prepare the best for your NLP Certification Exam. One of the things you need to do is that you need …
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When we are done with suffering, the healing is instantaneous. What’s important about this is recognizing that when people have suffered enough they are ready to change. And that change can happen in the moment, if the conditions are right. But if the conditions aren’t right you have to manufacture that moment. The wrong way …
Eye patterns are one of the indicators you can use to decipher the strategies that people are running inside their head. Let me tell you a true story! Years ago I was in America, I remember I was going to a training with Tad James. I remember sitting at the end of the bar waiting …
The degree of the certainty you have for the future comes from the quality of how you picture the future inside your own mind. If your picture of the future is fuzzy, or dull, or unclear, you will have uncertainty. The only way to make this picture clear and focused is to make a decision …
Certainty is a feeling. Have you ever said “I Feel Certain” or “I feel uncertain”. When you feel certainty, the quality of the pictures you have in your head are vivid, bright and clear and that impacts how you feel. Why is that important? These pictures gives us a little tip off to how the …
The Law of Consequences (link) in NLP states that if we assume total responsibility for our experience in our lives, we are more likely to look inwards for the answers and therefor not blame external conditions. This allows us to drop the victim position and to be Empowered about our choices and our action. The …
Anchoring is an automatic stimulus-response system such that when some unique stimulus happens, you respond by feeling a certain way or you behave in a certain way. Human beings are anchoring machines, which means most of our behaviours are knee-jerk reactions to what is happening around us. We automatically respond in a certain way based …
The Tools and Techniques of NLP are all outcome focused. This is a major reason why NLP helps people get better results. You begin with the outcome that you want then work backwards to figure out how to get there. Stephen Covey captured this best with one of his seven habits: “Begin with the end …